What I would not like to be on Rebirth :

For those who don’t believe in rebirth, its fine …. Even I don’t believe in it. But given a choice to opt out, I would choose not to be born as a Woman.

Surprising ????

But I have reasons for it:

While we sit under the fan, who sweats in the kitchen? Its mom: a woman. While we sit down to eat, who serves us food? Its mom/wife: a woman. When it’s a fesival, who makes the delicacies? The woman. While we change clothes one after another, who washes them out? Its again a woman. While any family member is angry/sad who is most disturbed? The woman. When it comes about family, who makes the most sacrifices? The woman. When anything goes wrong, who iz blamed? The woman. Who is under constant threat from her own gender? The Woman.

The world may change, but whose world will never change? The Woman’s. The world will remain a dangerous place to live in … for a Woman …. ever ……. forever …..

Dey needn't b verbal ... but r touchy:

Words ……. Not only are they expression of emotions …….. but are also sources of Inspiration.

Today … I would share with you my invaluable treasure ….. Some of the most precious messages in my Inbox:

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True friendship is not leaving behind old friends

When you find new 1s;

Its all about preserving dried rose between pages

Inspite of being gifted a rose daily.

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The person who tries to keep every1 happy

Iz always the most lonely person;

So never leave them

Bcoz they will never say they need U.

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The most critical moments in life:

When some1 very special hurts U so deeply,

Causes tears in Ur eyes and asks

“What happened?”

But U simply reply :

“Nothing”!

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Life runs on two golden rules: “Accept’ and “Change”

“Accept” the things which U cannot “change”.

“Change” the things which U cannot “accept” !!

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Do not count what u hav lost.

Just see what u hav now,

Bcoz past never comes back

But sometimes future can give u back

Ur lost things !!

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U never get a person of ur type in dis world,

U hav to either adjust or compromise.

Adjust when som1 wants to be with u;

Compromise when u want to with som1 !!

** Now dat appears to b the safest thing to do!!

Words....

"Sticks and stones break bones;
Words Change relationships"

Indeed they do !!
For a long time I have been giving too much importance to Words..... its somehow in my genes.

Whever I say something , I regard it as a statement ... a word which has to be kept. Whenever someone says me something ... it gets imprinted on my mind ...never to get erased (at most "masked" sometimes .. for sometime).

But there iz an extent to everything (probably).
Where to draw the borderline, becomes a critical decision to take.
I can stick to this yardstick..... but I need to maintain some flexibility.
Nature of the yardstick ... is yet to be determined !!
Until then the suffering n stiffening goes on and on ........

A MonDay

As the 10-day vacations got over, it was time to return back……

At home, my family was busy at early pranayam session……..

Though Maa offered to make tea… I turned down the offer saying “I will take tea from the tea stall outside” …. Maa replied “If you are taking tea outside nowadays …. then its fine”.


Still she made tea while I was taking bath n I gladly had it with biscuits…… N then walked to continue my current target: “Protein Expression”.

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As I walked into the canteen, the manager called me and said “Where did you and your friends go this Friday? Please don’t do this again. I kept waiting for you till 2pm and wasted Rs 136 worth stuff. I request you …please don’t come here to eat…. I don’t want this to happen all over again.”

I could do nothing …but just smile and return to my friends……


Couldn’t say even “Sorry” …… since it iz still a “Too Heavy Word for Me” !!

This reminded me of a few things :

The Manager had laid faith in me that I would definitely turn up with my friends for lunch and not let the food , his labor n investment go waste ….. I couldn’t live up to it Just bcoz I was lazy enuf to inform my friends on time N had preferred to attend to the Stopwatch set for my project at Cuttack !!

Maa’s words: “If you are taking tea outside nowadays …. then its fine” indeed referred to my earlier statement that I would never take tea outside home.

My words can nowadays not be trusted

My statements cannot be relied upon;

As promises made by me remain unkept

I realize that this sud no longer go on.

Its time for me to change

I sudn’t let myself adjust;

Before it goes out of range

I have to restore in me : “Trust”.


But the day didn’t go so disappointing … as “I have finally learnt the art of putting up a False Smile”……..

The Pics say it all ....

Dreams r the bricks that r still to be baked .......


Life is a canvass that iz to b coloured ....


Ur eyes r the 1s "That say it All " .....


Love iz something dat matters ...after all .....



However hard U try ... it often doesn't stay on hold ....



Worlds-Most-Beautiful-and-Painful-Sentences :



The only option left iz to :

Afterall dese are the cherished moments of life ......


After all :


U gotta remember :





And follow dis above all :

Right n Wrong :

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Very often we are confused between what is Right n what iz Wrong ...


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We get really confused .......



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Which way to choose ????


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Dat upsets us ... depresses us ..N moreover "Supresses us' ...


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N we take whatever route we can ..... N den "Shit happens " :



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Then we try to ask our conscience :::

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But the easiest way iz:
"Whatever we have to do hidingly is Wrong "



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Dat brings in happiness...

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N guaranteed satisfaction ..... If followed strictly !!

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